When a man resorts to physical abuse against a woman, it’s likely that the abuse was preceded by sexual abuse and a lack of boundaries in sexual interactions. Excessive sexual indulgences by a man with a woman who is too lenient with her sexual favors can lead to his degradation. This degradation may occur unknowingly to him and perhaps unknowingly to the woman as well, driven by her feelings of insecurity and the desire for affection.
If a woman provides a man with excessive sexual gratification, there is usually an ulterior motive behind it. It is not natural for a woman to engage in an abundance of sexual activity. However, when she feels insecure, she may perceive that providing him with excessive sex is a means to diminish his authority and dominance. She recognizes this as a method to transform the man into a submissive animal, reliant on her for affection and approval. The woman may find herself idolized by the deteriorating man, who pleads for her sexual favors.
Anger
Once the man experiences excessive sexual pleasure, he undergoes this transformation into an animal. He discovers his loss of authority and manhood in the process and may become very angry. This anger could manifest in physical abuse or extreme violence toward the woman as a form of retaliation. When a man becomes corrupted and addicted to sex, he becomes either a violent beast or a submissive being. There is no middle ground between the two.
It is essential to understand the power dynamics at play and the consequences of allowing such behavior to escalate. Both parties need to reflect on their roles in the relationship dynamics. Excessive sexual behavior can lead to a deterioration of respect and authority, ultimately diminishing the man’s sense of self. Individuals must acknowledge their responsibilities and strive for a healthy interaction balance.
True love and understanding can only blossom when both partners are working to put in the effort to overcome their lower natures and prioritize the well-being of each other. Thoughtfulness and discipline in moments of difficulty highlight the importance of empathy and patience in a relationship.
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