We live in a society that glorifies pride. We’re told to be proud of our achievements, our opinions, and even our identities. But what if that same pride is the very thing keeping us stuck in a cycle of conflict and self-sabotage? It’s like we’re all obeying a script devised by the world. The unexpected twist is that this pride serves as just a tool of control. That pride is what the world wants you to have, so it can control you.

The Problem of Pride

Pride is that sneaky little gremlin that creeps into our lives when we least expect it. It’s the voice in your head whispering, “You’re better than them,” or “You deserve more.” When we cling to our pride, it’s like we’re walking around with blinders on. We focus solely on our own ego. We don’t just carry our pride, we end up dragging others into our struggle. This includes family, friends, or even strangers on the internet. When we clash, it’s usually because we’re stubbornly holding on to our pride, thinking we’re right and they’re wrong. Instead of addressing it with an open heart, you dig your heels in. Before you know it, you’re creating problems not just for yourself but for everyone around you. It’s like a vicious cycle of pride-fueled chaos.

The Illusion of Struggle

When we struggle with others, we think we’re evolving. But often, it’s just the opposite. You’re amassing the same problems over and over again. You struggle with someone and they struggle with you. In the end, it’s like being stuck on a merry-go-round that you can’t get off. You’re in conflict with the divine ego, and that is a living hell. But there is a way out. What if you observe this prideful struggle instead of being consumed by it? Imagine for a moment that you can sit back and meditate. Watching your prideful thoughts as if they were clouds passing by in the sky.

The Power of Observation

Here’s the thing: pride can’t survive in the light of observation. When you take a moment to just look at yourself, do it without anger and without denial. Approach with an innocent attitude, and you start to unearth some pretty incredible insights. You will find that the things you’ve been struggling with aren’t as significant as you thought. They’re just temporary, fleeting moments fueled by pride. Meditation is more than sitting cross-legged and humming. It involves creating a safe space where you can observe your thoughts without judgment. The moment you shine a light on that pride and separate from it, it begins to disappear. It’s like watching a bubble float away. You see it, acknowledge it, and let it go.

Embracing a Pure Attitude

Embracing a pure and innocent attitude doesn’t mean you become a doormat. It’s about recognizing your flaws and the flaws of others without judgment. It’s about fostering compassion for yourself and everyone else who’s caught up in this messy human experience. When you stop denying what you see and accept it, you cultivate a sense of peace that can be transformative. This isn’t an overnight fix. It takes practice, patience, and a willingness to sit with uncomfortable feelings. Every time you catch yourself feeling that familiar pride creeping in, take a step back. Remind yourself: “This is just a part of the human experience.”

Summary

Pride is a tricky little sin. It can wreak havoc in our lives. Nonetheless, we have the power to observe and transform it. We can start by recognizing how pride influences our interactions. Cultivating a pure, innocent attitude helps. This way, we can start to peel back the layers of our struggles and find a deeper sense of peace. The next time you’re facing a challenge, take a moment to meditate, observe, and breathe. Remember, you’re not alone in this beautiful, chaotic journey we call life. Keep shining that light.

Embracing Stillness: Let the Feeling Pass

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