Author: ubstill
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Not Knowing What to Do
Feeling upset due to indecision is common and can be likened to an illness. Instead of resenting our uncertainty, we should accept it and remain calm. Practice patience, acknowledge the feeling of not knowing, and trust that clarity will come. Sometimes, doing nothing allows the right path to naturally reveal itself. Read more
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Stop Looking for Love
Stop searching for love in others, as it often leads to shallow and unfulfilling relationships. Instead, focus on seeking God’s unconditional love. By letting go of the need for human approval, you open yourself to true fulfillment through God’s pure and selfless love. This shift brings lasting peace and contentment. Read more
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Embracing Stillness: Let the Feeling Pass
In a fast-paced world, resisting the urge for external validation and turning to meditation can help navigate emotions like loneliness. Instead of instant gratification, sitting quietly and observing feelings offers inner peace. This practice fosters self-awareness, reduces emotional intensity, and leads to deeper understanding and fulfillment in life. Read more
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Love and Hate
Falling in love is often viewed as a romantic ideal, but it can actually lead us down a path of dependence, selfishness, and hate. Read more
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Mindfulness and Decision-Making
Emotions often cloud judgment, leading to regrettable decisions made impulsively. Meditation can help clear the mind, allowing for rational decision-making free from emotional turmoil. Practicing mindfulness and self-awareness aids in recognizing emotional influences and promotes healthier coping mechanisms. Recommended resources include works by Shauna Shapiro, Daniel Goleman, and the American Psychological Association. Read more
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UNREASONABLE DEMANDS
The text discusses the ongoing challenges in understanding between men and women in relationships. It identifies common male frustrations with female behavior, attributing these to cultural, hormonal, and psychological factors. The proposed solution emphasizes remaining calm, showing integrity, and standing up respectfully to foster healthier dynamics, emphasizing mutual respect and understanding. Read more
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What Is Right
Society often teaches us that we are supposed to have a clear understanding of what is right and wrong. We are expected to have values by which we measure everything, what to reference, and what to aim for our goals. However, the truth is that we don’t actually know what is right. This realization can… Read more
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Dealing with Unwanted Advances
In the complex world of relationships and emotions, it is not uncommon for a girl to pursue a man who does not reciprocate her feelings. This can lead to resentment on the part of the man, as well as feelings of guilt and confusion. It is important to address these emotions maturely and respectfully to… Read more
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Being Right With People
Maintaining healthy relationships requires kindness and decency, regardless of others’ actions. Negative behavior often stems from personal struggles, and responding with compassion rather than hostility can disrupt harmful cycles. Effort, patience, and empathy can foster growth and change, emphasizing self-care while positively influencing interactions and promoting overall transformation. Read more
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Overcoming Temptations with Truth-Seeking Mindset
The text explores the idea that fervently wanting something can lead to guilt and self-deception, as such desires conflict with higher values. Instead, it advocates seeking truth and approaching life’s challenges with curiosity and wonder, which can lead to inner peace, freedom from guilt, and healthier life choices, fostering empathy and meaningful connections. Read more
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Changing the Inclination of the Heart
In our quest for personal growth and transformation, we often find ourselves reaching for glory and gratification for the benefit of our egos. We may wonder what life is truly about instead of simply assuming we know the answer. However, true change can only occur once we acknowledge that our current desires are rooted in… Read more
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Overcoming Resentment for Personal Growth
Resentment is a powerful and destructive emotion that can have a profound impact on our thoughts, feelings, and behavior. It often begins with feeling guilt because we resent someone or something. This guilt can lead to self-doubt and a sense of wrongdoing, even when we know deep down that we are right. Over time, these… Read more
