By pleasing people, you are seeking the approval of others which can lead to a cycle of resentment and guilt. You are doing things for people that you don’t want to do because you don’t want to hurt their feelings. You are not okay just because people like you. Constantly pleasing people to gain their… Read more

Seeking relationships to find love is not ideal. It means you are lonely and bored and desire affection, excitement, or spice. True happiness is found within yourself where you are content being alone. If you are unable to live alone and be at peace with yourself, seeking relationships will only mix your misery with others.… Read more

Having friends can provide a support system that bolsters your sense of self. They offer reassurance to your ego and provide comfort when needed. However, this ego reassurance can make you feel alright even when you are not all right. These lies can make you feel good about yourself. When someone lies to us, it… Read more

In looking for love, your desire often stems from seeking approval. This desire for love or support can reflect a sense of inadequacy within yourself. If you were adequate or right, you wouldn’t need love from anyone. Your yearning for love may lead you to compromise your values or self-worth in exchange for affection, even… Read more

Women have long been hypnotic creatures of fascination, captivating the attention of men with their allure and mystique. Men’s fascination with women often leads to a little embarrassment along with strong sexual stimulation, a natural response rooted in earthly desires. However, it is crucial to resist indulging in the fantasies that may arise from this… Read more

The preoccupation with sex, especially among men, stems from a deep-rooted need for ego validation that having sex is right. Men often seek affirmation through sexual conquests using women to boost their self-esteem. This eagerness for validation leads to having women lie to them and boosting their egos which perpetuates the link between ego and… Read more

A sensible woman wants that correcting love from her husband. Unfortunately, most men don’t know how to give her that “something” that she truly needs, leading to conflicts at home. To know what she needs, he must dig deeper within himself and understand her true desires. Contrary to popular belief, a woman doesn’t necessarily want… Read more

There is a belief that the flow of a man’s sexual energy if retained in the body, in a special way, can lead to eternal life. This process cannot be learned scientifically, it is guided by the spirit. This is made possible only through grace. Sex for men is a problem caused by pride and affects the… Read more

Marriage is a challenging and risky journey that many people struggle to navigate successfully. Not only do they fail to learn from it, but they also regress. It requires maturity and mental preparedness to handle the responsibilities of marriage and parenthood.  Unfortunately, some individuals enter into marriage for the wrong reasons, leading to destructive outcomes. However, for other… Read more

The expression “falling in love” is commonly used in romantic literature and movies, depicting the state of being emotionally in love with someone, accompanied by an illusive sense of euphoria and perfection. However, this illusion ultimately leads to dissatisfaction and conflict. Women are naturally attracted to the wrongs or flaws in men, finding excitement in them. Similarly,… Read more