A sensible woman wants that correcting love from her husband. Unfortunately, most men don’t know how to give her that “something” that she truly needs, leading to conflicts at home. To know what she needs, he must dig deeper within himself and understand her true desires.
Contrary to popular belief, a woman doesn’t necessarily want or need sex from a man. However, if she loves her husband, then she won’t mind engaging in it because there is a certain period that they must go through. Ultimately, what she wants is to be corrected from being seen solely as a sex symbol. She desires the godly goodness in her husband, not the animalistic side of him demanding the animal in her to serve the animal in him.
She wants him to encourage her to be good, right, and righteous. For this to happen, the man must have the authority to correct his wife. Having sex with her in a way that reinforces his ego and relying on her to uplift him won’t give him that authority.
Cycle of Insecurity
Seeking validation and reassurance from your wife only perpetuates the cycle of insecurity. For example, when it’s a hard day’s night and you come home depressed, worn down, and insecure, you then look to the woman to give you a new lease on life, to inspire you, to love you, and to make you feel good about yourself. When you have sex with that woman then, you are calling out the worst in her to support what is not right in you…to give new life to the worst in you. Thus, you go out the next day feeling reassured. However, you fail again because you have the wrong kind of reassurance for the wrong kind of self.
Looking to the woman to love and mother you are misguided, as it calls forth the wrong nature in her. She reaches down into her spirit to lie to you while “loving” you. This leads to her becoming unreasonable and irresponsible. In essence, embracing a sick spirit.
You, in your fallen state, will not love a woman who refuses to play that “loving” game with you because she will force you to confront yourself. Your ego desperately seeks the sick spirit in her. Ultimately, when you try to correct her, she becomes mean and unreasonable. She bosses you around and is unkind to the children. You don’t have the authority to correct her.
A Powerful Tool
In relationships, it’s important to recognize the dynamics at play. When seeking love and support from a woman, it’s crucial to understand the balance of power and authority and the impact of your actions and expectations. When you find that the woman holds undue power over you, it’s essential to take steps to correct this imbalance.
You are responsible for this situation but you can’t reverse it by yourself. You must find a life support system that does not come from the woman. Meditation is a powerful tool to help you find your inner strength and authority. By drawing from a deeper source within yourself, you can establish a sense of self-assurance and confidence.
This newfound authority will enable you to address any unreasonable behavior from the woman in your life with clarity and resolve. It doesn’t matter that the woman is wrong, it matters that the man should be right, under the authority of God. He is the key to correcting love. Ideally, the man is the extension of God, the woman is the extension of him, and the children are the extension of her.
By focusing on building your inner foundation and authority, you can regain control and steer the dynamics in a more balanced direction. Ultimately, taking charge of your power and authority from God is important in fostering a healthy and respectful relationship with the woman you love.
Summary
A woman wants that correcting love and to be seen beyond her physicality. The man must have the authority to correct her, but it cannot be based on using sex as a means of validation. He must look deep within himself through meditation to find that divine authority to apply that correcting love.
By understanding these dynamics, a couple can build a healthier and more fulfilling relationship.
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