BP103
Some women desire to be worshipped and seek attention and excitement in various relationships. However, the men who worship them lack understanding and depth. This leads to the women becoming emotionally entangled with the wrong kind of people, resulting in their own sickness and eventual tragedy.
When a woman is with a good man, she may find herself feeling bored and wanting to leave the house. This is a matter of attitude. It is not advisable to seek excitement by being with weak men. Instead, she must find another way to get her energy.
Sex is not very important for women in married life. Women have used their sexual apparatus to attract and entice males, akin to using bait to catch fish. If a woman does not want to engage in sexual activities, she would not “wiggle” her body in a provocative manner. Women derive feelings of power and dominance from sex, rather than experiencing the same sexual desires and pleasures as men.
The fallen, corrupted person seeks life from the very source that corrupted them. They crave thrills and excitement to feel alive in their state of deadness. Without these distractions, they are confronted with their wrongness and feel threatened by this realization. In stark contrast, a good person does not rely on such excitement to find fulfillment in life.
Transformation
A woman can make a “monkey” out of a man, but she cannot make a man out of a “monkey.” She feels challenged to transform him into her ideal man as if her own salvation depended on it. She hopes that her love and care will make him a better human being so he will appreciate her. This phenomenon is commonly observed in wives of alcoholic husbands who feel a sense of responsibility to save their partners. However, this mindset is a misguided attempt to play a divine role. In such cases, it is not surprising when both parties end up hurting each other. Realize this phenomenon and look for answers within.