Having a steady girlfriend who likes you can be gratifying, but it also gives her a mysterious power to influence you into doing things you know you shouldn’t do. It can be difficult to assert yourself or say no to her, and this can be painful. To deal with her in this power dynamic, you may overcompensate by being the bully instead of her. 

It would help if you rose above your selfish need for her. Your need for young ladies is a carnal, ego obsession. Your vanity can be exploited, especially when it comes to your desire for pretty girls as your steady girlfriend.

When a young man sees or encounters an attractive young woman, he often experiences a surge of emotions and desires that can be unsettling and uncomfortable. This is because these feelings are associated with the forbidden and can make him feel awkward. 

Unfortunately, men unintentionally contribute to turning women into tyrants by using them for their ego gratification. What we love, enjoy, and indulge in can eventually become despots or tyrants. Men unknowingly subject their women to this. It is advisable not to have a steady girlfriend at this stage of your life.

This Unspoken Game

When you encounter a pretty girl, be mindful of your eagerness and observe how she appeals to it and leads you on. Watch how you respond.

As you grow older, develop the inner strength necessary to transcend this unspoken game. By doing so, you will be the master of the situation, and your need for validation will diminish over time.

The right women will respect you more and more, and you will no longer feel inferior. However, if you are not right within yourself, the right women will not respect you while the wrong ones will take advantage of you.

The wrong women will manipulate you through your carnal thoughts about them. They will build your ego up and make you feel inferior.

Focus on your personal growth and maturity, while remaining aware of this unspoken game.

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