The more perfect a person is, the more control he has over his sexual desires. This self-mastery indicates a high level of personal development and maturity. When a person reaches such a state, they find less need to rely on sex as a means of expression. Instead, they channel their energy into other creative and constructive activities. These outlets can be intellectual pursuits, artistic endeavors, or contributions to their community and society at large. The fulfillment gained from these forms of self-expression provides a deeper and often more lasting sense of satisfaction and achievement.
The more emotional a person is, the stronger their sex drives will be. Those who struggle with controlling their emotions may also struggle with managing their sex drives. Emotionality has something to do with failing. Failure to examine and understand our emotional state has something to do with dying. Sex has something to do with our ongoing because of dying.
Base Instincts
Conversely, when an individual fails to develop their higher faculties, they tend to become more driven by their base instincts. Failure here can be understood as a lapse in cultivating one’s inner and spiritual dimensions. In such cases, the person may revert to more primal, animalistic behaviors. This regression results in a greater reliance on sexual activity not just for procreation, but as a primary means of expression and validation. The greater the failure to cultivate one’s spiritual and intellectual life, the more powerful the pull of these primal instincts becomes. The means of ongoing is not by regeneration to a higher level but by generation or even degeneration through sex.
Such habits don’t just stunt personal growth; they can mess up relationships and overall well-being too. Getting stuck in these base behaviors makes people chase quick pleasures instead of aiming for long-term goals or spiritual growth. It’s like a never-ending loop, where each slip-up makes them even more fixated on immediate gratification, overshadowing chances for deeper self-expression and spiritual advancement. So, to work towards becoming a better person, it’s all about staying aware and constantly putting effort into developing higher faculties, choosing to focus on intellectual and spiritual goals instead of giving in to easier, more primal urges.
If you did not fail so much as a human being, you would not be such an animal sexually. Women who can use your failing will encourage your failing, your sexuality. Failing men identify sexuality with virtues to avoid seeing that it’s a failing. They can’t control their urges because of all these emotions, failing, and dying are all tangled up with their need for sex.
Channel Your Sex Drives
If you want to dam a river, you do it at the source, not the mouth. Similarly, you can channel your sex drives through spiritual growth at the source. Don’t wait until you are emotionally fired up to try to control your sexual desires. Embrace patience through meditation and view it as a strength that helps you navigate through life’s challenges with grace. Seek to uplift others around you by being kind, understanding, and supportive; this creates a positive environment for everyone. Stay calm in challenging situations, knowing that with a composed mind, you can overcome obstacles more effectively. By understanding the root causes of your desires, you gain the power to manage them positively. This leads to a more fulfilling, joyful life where you are in harmony with yourself and those around you.
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